would you like to experience?

  • Moving deeper into intimacy and love

  • The most delicious pleasure, love and passion

  • More touch & play into your sensual life

  • A union of true love, connection & clear communication

  • Activation of your ecstatic bliss

  • A bespoke love experience

Hi I’m Elfie Jade!

I’m passionate about the wisdom and innate healing power of our bodies, which I love to refer to as our “divine temples.” My purpose here this lifetime is to support and facilitate others to integrate mind-body-spirituality in a conscious and loving way, so you can thrive, be alive, joyful, magnetic and a radiantly beautiful sovereign individual.

My journey so far has been a vibrant tapestry woven with threads of exploration, discovery, and profound healing. Born with an insatiable curiosity, from a young age, I embarked on a quest for truth and self-realization, traversing the landscapes of various spiritual teachings and religions. Yet, it was the ancient wisdom of Tantra that resonated deeply with my soul on a profound level, igniting a transformative journey of self-love, acceptance, and celebration of life.

Rooted in a rich background as a highly qualified Kahuna therapist (for 18 yrs) my mastery extends into shamanism, medicine facilitation and somatic trauma-informed care. 

My previous professional journeys have been a colourful tapestry, weaving through diverse roles, including working as a corporate lawyer, dance facilitator, graphic designer, airbrush body artist, and photographer.

  • Each chapter in my life has been instrumental in unveiling and nurturing my true gifts in the realms of artful healing and healing creative art.

    Central to my philosophy is the belief that we are all perfect and complete just as we are. Through Tantra, I teach the power of radical self-love and the celebration of pleasure and sexual magnificence as pathways to self-actualization, self-empowerment, and joy.

    Today, I live in Ewingsdale, Byron Bay, in a Balinese-styled Goddess temple home, from which I practice my work with individuals and couples. If we’re a fit to work together, you may experience a session with me here held deep in nature. Many of my sessions and events are conducted from here, plus I also regularly travel to Sydney, interstate, and overseas to share my gifts far and wide.

What’s Tantra?

The term Tantra, derived from Sanskrit, translates to "woven" or "weaving together," symbolising the integration of the spiritual, emotional and physical realms.

It is commonly believed that Tantra originated in ancient India, but its actual roots can be traced back much further (see little discourse below). It constitutes a comprehensive spiritual tradition embracing diverse practices, beliefs, and philosophies. Despite its common association with sexuality, Tantra represents a holistic system aiming to unify various dimensions of human existence.

At the heart of Tantra lies the transformative power of love. Love is the magic ingredient through with all transformation can happen. It offers tools to infuse love and compassion into every aspect of ourselves, including our pain, shadows, and emotions. Through the practice of radical self-love, we can learn to embrace all facets of our being without judgment or the need for control, allowing each experience to be suffused with the essence of love.

  • In the Tantric worldview, the body, pleasure, and sexuality are revered as inherently sacred and complete. There exists no inherent flaw or brokenness within individuals; they are embodiments of divine consciousness, encompassing the divine feminine, masculine, and non-binary energies.

    Tantra contrasts with teachings rooted in spiritual misconceptions, which propagate a sense of spiritual disconnection and fragmentation. If you are taught to believe for example that your pussy is the opposite of God, that your orgasm is the opposite of goodness, that your desire is less than holy, than you create a split, a dualism. You are going to fundamentally deny your human nature, you will dissociate and disconnect with some of the most fundamental parts of you which will lead to unworthiness.

    By embracing and honoring desire, pleasure, and all aspects of existence, Tantra offers a pathway to spiritual growth and enlightenment. Desire, far from being vilified, is viewed as a potential catalyst for spiritual awakening and self realization.

    The body is revered as a sacred vessel, mirroring the cosmic order. Tantric rituals are imbued with intention, aimed at activating, embodying, and connecting to eternal truths. These rituals encompass a spectrum of practices, including meditation, breathwork, visualization, mantra chanting, and ceremonial rites. Through these practices, we can seek to awaken and harness the latent spiritual energy known as Kundalini, residing at the base of the spine.

    In essence, Tantra guides us home to the present moment, recognizing the inherent divinity within ourselves and the interconnectedness of all existence. It offers a profound invitation to embrace and celebrate life in its entirety, honoring pleasure, desire, and the sacredness of being.

Offerings

  • SelfLove Coaching is a love and desire-based coaching system, which means we don’t spend much time focusing on what’s wrong or what’s holding you back, instead, we use your vision of what you desire in your live. This propels you forward and motivates you to heal and integrate whatever keeps you from living your dreams and desires.

    My self-love coaching method is a deeply transformational process to heal and awaken your deepest wisdom using holistic tools like breath work, pleasure practices, trauma healing, meditative practices, energy work, ancient rituals, sound, dancing, and movement that blend modern neurobiology with ancient teachings of Tantra, Taoism and Sacred S*xuality. Backed by modern science and empowered by ancient wisdom you learn how to work with the primal brain and the deep subconscious, which allows you to resolve issues that keep you from living a thriving joyful life, from having s*x, relationships and love that you deeply desire and deserve.
    My SelfLove Coaching is based on the VITA methodology by Layla Martin

  • Receiving
    My Sensual Massage is designed to awaken and elevate your senses with smooth, gentle strokes that flow both sensually and rhythmically across and under your body. With 20 years of expertise in the Hawaiian Art of Massage (Kahuna), I am a master at blending deeply nurturing, healing techniques, including underbody work, cradling, and rocking, with skillful Tantric movements. This experience will enhance your pleasure, promote deep relaxation, and nurture a profound connection with your sensuality, universal sexual chi as an energetic life force.

    I will guide you through a serene yet revitalising journey, creating a truly unforgettable experience.

    Learning
    Would you like to take your own massage skills to a whole new level?
    I would love to teach you! Learning sensual massage is especially amazing for couples, a real treat.


  • Devotional TempleArt Massage for Women is a sensual full body massage including a Yoni mapping and/or massage.
    Yoni Mapping a gentle and respectful ‘guided tour’ of your most mysterious, divine and sacred body part – the incredible female pelvis. 

    ‘Yoni’ is the Sanskrit word for vagina, meaning ‘sacred space,’ and it truly is—it's the source of human life! Yet, many of us struggle to fully love and honor our yonis. We may judge our vulvas against the photoshopped images we see in media, or rush toward a quick pleasure peak, sometimes allowing penetration before we feel completely ready.

    Yoni Mapping Therapy offers a powerful opportunity to reconnect with the potential of your Yoni and cultivate wholeness, love, respect, and self-honoring. It invites you to deepen your understanding of yourself in a holistic way—embracing your physical, emotional, mental, spiritual, and sexual self.

    This modality isn’t about fixing or changing anything, nor is it about reaching a certain goal. Instead, Yoni Mapping is about being fully present with whatever arises, free from judgment or labels of ‘good’ or ‘bad.’ It's a gentle exploration of your unique body and pelvic space, helping you get to know yourself on a deeper level.

    In these sessions, all of you is welcomed and accepted—just as you are, in whatever form that takes.

  • Devotional TempleArt massage is a full body sensual massage with including the male sacred area, the lingam. This service helps to release stored tension, enhance sensitivity, and circulate vital energy, fostering a deeper connection to one's sexual essence and overall health.

  • For couples & individuals
    This Intimacy coaching will help you or your relationship to develop closer and more fulfilling intimate connections through strengthening both your emotional and physical intimacy. It's all about helping you to deepen your understanding, communication, vulnerability, and emotional awareness.

    This Intimacy coaching is designed to help you or your relationship develop deeper, more fulfilling connections by strengthening both emotional and physical intimacy. The focus is on enhancing your understanding, communication, vulnerability, and emotional awareness, creating a foundation for more meaningful and authentic relating. 

  • Sacred Pleasure is our birthright. And we are the source of this pleasure! By activating & amplifying our pleasure, we increase our magnetism, magnificence, radiance & beauty. 

    When we cultivate & channel this divine creative life-force energy through us, we unleash its magic & power. This sacred practice allows us to accelerate & supercharge the manifestation of our highest dreams!

    When we surrender to ourselves & amplify this energy within our energetic fields, we become radiant magnetic beacons of light in the universe. We enter a superhighway of high-frequency creation. We are able to create from within our activated hearts in a high-frequency energetic wave of ecstatic creation.

    At Pleasure Portal we manifest from the highest vibrational state available to us humans, our Ecstatic Sacred Pleasure. We can increase the baseline of our frequency until we vibrate at a higher-level, the same level as the things we would like to magnetise and manifest in our lives.

    Through tantric practices, kundalini activation, pleasure medicine, pleasure prayer, meditation, dance & ecstatic-body practices, we embark on a journey to embody a deeper truth - that we are the Divine Creaters of our lives and we have the power to manifest our own magic!

  • The word “Tantra” loosely translates to “weaving together,” echoing the notion of all aspects of the self are in harmony, as well as weaving the masculine and feminine (energies, not genders- anyone of any gender and orientation can practice Tantra), heaven and earth, yin and yang, etc…
    It also means weaving spirituality and intention into your sexuality.   

    As you deepen into the space of sacred sexuality, you will enjoy greater sensory awareness, better confidence, more body appreciation, better orgasms, more fulfilling intimate relationships, and of course, a more tangible and dynamic connection to the Divine.
    PS you don’t need a partner to practice Tantra

  • Kahuna is a shamanic. non-sexual massage modality from Hawaii. It is a very Ancient yet Ever-New unique, effective & wonderful healing modality where the practitioner uses his/her hands, forearms and elbows to give a massage and nurture the client.

     Unique to Hawaiian massage are long & fluid strokes, skillful underbodywork and a constant alternation between deep pressure work with elbows & forearms and nurturing hand massage.

    Music is played during the massage. Dynamic breathing and dance movements are the source of energy and rhythm in Kahuna. At times the practitioner dances around the table using hula or tai chi style movements, which help him/her to attune to the natural rhythms of the clients body; to harmonise body, mind and soul; to massage with flow and continuity and sometimes even to enter in a trance-like state.Item description

    I have been a Kahuna practitioner for 20 years. If you like to learn more check out my website
    www.kahunaaloha.com

  • Celebrating Love in Paradise

    Celebrating love is one of my greatest joys, and it would be an absolute honor to create a personalized retreat for you and your beloved at my serene Balinese sanctuary. Imagine spending a few magical days immersed in beauty, relaxation, and connection. You’ll enjoy soothing massages, learning how to give each other sensual massages, explore tantric and sensual play, receive transformative coaching, savor nourishing, healthy meals and perhaps even embark on some magical shamanic ceremonial journeys.

    When you’re at the peak of your love and harmony, I would be thrilled to capture your high-frequency connection through body paint and photography. Together, we’ll create a stunning art piece that will forever remind you of the magic you shared. (You can view my artwork on the next page.)

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Sacred Sexuality is the key to a world of magic, bliss and freedom. Let's create this magical world together.

Sacred Sexuality is the key to a world of magic, bliss and freedom. Let's create this magical world together.

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